Is your December Baby Ready For School?

Is Your December Baby Ready For School

In the past few weeks my social media feeds have been full of mommies talking about registering their children for kindergarten.  Its such an exciting and terrifying time, and I know for a certain group of mommies, the ones with children born in the later part of the year, its especially anxiety inducing.

I know how they feel, that was me in the beginning of last year, struggling with the choice.
Is she ready? Will not sending her to school hold her back? Will she be picked on because she’s smaller? Will she be tired without a nap? Will she be scared?

Here in Ontario, children enter the school system the calendar year that they turn four.  In my area the only option for kindergarten is all-day every day. It meant that my daughter would be three years old when she started and she would be gone A Lot. My baby who up until that point had been my constant shadow.  I seriously considered not sending her until the next year, but that presented its own issues. Would she be behind? Would she be left out of already formed social circles?

It really felt like I couldn’t win, to the point that I actually considered homeschooling!

In the end though, I decided to send her.  It was hard, and on that first day, I felt like my heart was breaking. As she walked into that classroom with her little backpack on and her head held high, she didn’t even cry, I cant say the same thing about myself.

I really think that sending her was the right decision.  In the months since she started school, I have watched her bloom.  My shy little girl has blossomed into a social butterfly. She has friends, she has a lot of friends! She is learning at such an incredible pace, and she’s so proud to share what she knows.

The other day, my baby brought home a book, and read it to me.   She read it to me, all by herself.

I may miss my little girl while shes at school, but I know shes where she needs to be.   I see now that wanting to keep her home was a selfish thought, I wasn’t ready to share her with the world.  I’m glad I did though, because she was ready.
We’ve entered into the “letting go” part of parenting.  I need to open my arms a little bit and watch her grow outside of their shelter.  Its a hard place to be and I know its not going to get any easier in the coming years, but I’m proud to say we made it through these firsts steps.

Comments (3)

  • It is a pretty tough choice! Both my boys are born in the beginning of the year so we have been lucky that way but I can only imagine how hard this choice was for you. Many Mom’s I know have kept them home that year.

  • My eldest daughter is a December baby. Letting go is very hard when you know they will be the youngest. Like you, I was amazed at how much she grew while at school. She read well above her grade level and picked up all the subjects quickly.

    Fortunately for my daughter, she was (and, now in grade 4, still is) the tallest in the class, even though she is the youngest.

    Congrats on your first big step!

  • Same here. My daughter was born at the end of Dec but she was SO ready to start JK at 3 1/2. She was always one of the tallest all through school and she is now in her first year of University. Best decision I made was to start her in school at 3 1/2.

    Good luck with your daughter.

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